Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Dating is a Dead End

Everyone is looking for that special someone to grow old with. The one you make lifetime memories with and can share your inner most feelings. Many have found that person, their best friend and are currently sharing their journey together. Then there is the other group who are still out there looking. Still out there hoping that they can trust their heart. Wondering if they should put themselves out there one more time. This world of awkwardness, games and can be summed up with some great lyrics by Steve Perry, "Foolish heart heed my warning. You've been wrong before......don't be wrong anymore." This is the crazy world of dating and it SUCKS!!!! You would think that people in the dating scene would be all be looking for the same thing; well think again my friends. People in the dating world are the most confused, manipulative people and they have these rules that nobody else knows about but them. You have those that just want as many dates as possible. The ones that are basically looking for someone else to pay for their good time. These are the worst!!! This type will drain you for everything you have and not think twice about it. You also have the kind that will manipulate your heart, your mind and every feeling you have for their own personal gain. These are the ones that will lead you on and then stomp your heart into a mud hole. The last kind I would like to mention are the rule-makers. The ones that have all these rules for dating but nobody else knows them so they never find happiness. Rules like he must be over 6 feet tall, rich, buff, he must like chick flicks, he can't text everyday, he can only call me every 3.75 days, he must love to travel, can't watch sports, etc..... I mean they have an endless list of rules and requirements, so nobody will ever fit the bill. Dating should be as simple as you either connect and want to continue getting to know each other or you don't. Being single is the worst and everyone tries to tell you that there is a person out there for you. Bullcrap!!! 98% of the people that are single are single for a reason and the other 2% are hard to find. It is very difficult to keep your wits about you because dating is very similar to the Thunderdome....................."Anything Goes" and it sucks!!!!

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